Filed under: Communication, Flirting, Tips For Men, Tips For Women, dating tips — Simeon @ 7:40 am
Some people seem to let their online relationship go on too long while it should probably have been ended much earlier. This can be a waste of time and source of future frustration.
You know already that you have to be clear with your dating goals. You know that you have to be honest about yourself and with the others. If you feel that for any reasons you are no longer attracted to someone, or that you simply do not see a future beyond a friendship, let them know right away. Do not make the mistake of letting a hopeless relationship go on for too long. Do not try to spare anyone’s feelings. You are certainly not doing them any favors by giving them false hope.
Bear in mind that the world of online dating is often messy and complicated. A tactful and honest communication style will get you a long way through that maze.
Enjoy your dating experience.
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Filed under: Flirting, General, Safety, Tips For Men, Tips For Women, dating tips — Simeon @ 9:01 am
You have gone through the personal ads and have filtered out potential dates according to compatibility and other essential factors. Through e-mail and telephone conversations, you have already taken some time in getting to know better that someone special you met through your online dating service. You feel now truly attracted to that person and you have decided to have a first face-to-face meeting.
Here are a few tips for your first date:
Make sure your first date is as low pressure as possible.
Keep it short and casual. You should not attempt to meet for a fancy dinner for the first time you meet.
Arrange to meet in a public space, somewhere that is active and full of people like a shopping center, a busy coffee bar…
A word of caution for women. Remember: your safety is paramount. Even though you have been exchanging messages and talking on the phone, that person is still a stranger and you only know from him what he told you. So be careful and avoid falling in a trap. Things can still get awkward and you have to keep that in mind.
Enjoy your dating experience.
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Filed under: Flirting, Online Romance, Tips For Men, dating tips — Simeon @ 4:02 am
All good relationships begin with successful flirting. In other words, flirting is the first step to a successful relationship. Online flirting is fundamentally no different from real-world flirting. Flirting is an art. Exercise it with tact and care.
Here are some tips which will help you to have a successful online flirting.
1. First of all, don’t try to go too fast. But don’t be too slow either. You have to find some kind of balance between these two extremes.
2. Smart flirting is playful. Have fun! Be light-hearted, funny and entertaining. Make her eager to talk to you again.
3. Successful flirts have a positive outlook on life. You know that an optimistic attitude attracts females. So, you need to generate and transmit a powerful “feel good” factor.
4. Nothing opens doors like making her feel good about herself. So, compliment your online date! Do it often and sincerely. She will want to chat longer with you and to spend more time with you. And if she pays you a compliment say “thank you”.
5. Do not be self depreciating. Be yourself. Talk about yourself and about your interests, honestly and positively. Build up your image as a charming and caring partner.
6. Listen…listen…listen. Pay close attention to what she says and ask her appropriate and relevant questions. Get her to open up and talk more about herself and her interests. Make her feel like she is interesting and unique and that you are interested in her.
7. Send an email after you chat as a way of nurturing your relationship. This gesture is like sending a thank you note for a gift and it can be vital to a successful online flirting.
8. Don’t be rude. Flirting does not involve being sexually explicit nor taking offence if your prospect is not responding to you the way you expected. If she isn’t interested, take it as a valuable hint and move on to the next prospect. Remember to take time to analyze the reasons why your messages didn’t go through. Obviously, if you get a lot of rejections, you should re-consider your approach and refine your flirting style.
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