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September 28, 2009

Tips For Women: What To Avoid In Handling Your Online Dating

Filed under: General, Tips For Women, Women, dating tips — Simeon @ 9:30 am

There are obviously some things that women should avoid while engaged in an internet relationship with a man. These things can put a quick end to any further communication with him.

While communicating by email or chatting online, do not write your life story. His eyes might glaze over and he could fall out of his chair. Keep it sweet and short until he asks for details…then provide them slowly. Remember: only answer the questions he asks. For example, he might ask you how many siblings you have. He is NOT obviously asking for details about your interaction with them. He just wants to know how many you have. Say you have 1, 2, 3 (or whatever is your reality) and then, in turn, ask him also how many he has. Why not? For every question he asks you, don’t be shy: you can also ask one of him.

Never, ever, EVER lie. You know it already: lies will catch up with you sooner or later. Many people, women and men alike, are tempted to lie about their age, employment, marital status, weight, height, and a wide host of other small things in their online profiles. That is certainly a big mistake. Suppose you find a gentleman who you are genuinely interested in and he later finds out you lied to him. There goes suddenly any possibility of the relationship progressing any further. So, the rule of thumb is: just be honest. There is certainly someone out there who genuinely will like you…even will come to love you…for exactly who you are.

Don’t be too eager. It would make you look desperate and it is very likely to put a prospect (man) off. Men are first and foremost conquerors. They are funny! If they feel that getting the person of their choice is just too easy, they will quickly lose interest and the initial enthusiasm. I don’t advise you to play the “hard-to-get” either. I only mean: don’t be too eager to push for a face-to-face meeting for example. Control the frequency of your emails. Don’t email them or IM them too frequently. Play it safe always and play it cool. Your success will be guaranteed.
Enjoy your dating.

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August 20, 2009

Understanding What Women Want

Filed under: General, Women, dating tips — Simeon @ 6:30 am

Some people jump into online dating without knowing what women want. What is that women want, you might ask?  That’s an age old question.  Let me tell you a few things women want and don’t want.

Women want a man to be confident…NOT an arrogant jerk.  This is very important.  You need to like yourself and not be self depreciating but you don’t need to come across like you believe that you are a gift to them from God and have just fallen from the sky.  Women don’t want you to think that they fell from heaven and they are some kind of perfect being, either.  They can’t live up to that kind of expectation.

Women want a good communicator. The “strong silent type” really isn’t appealing at all.  They think that you probably don’t have an original thought in your head and that you probably haven’t heard a word they said, either or that you just don’t care about what they said or didn’t even hear what they said.  They want you to be interesting enough to want to know more about you and they want you to think that they are interesting enough to ask intelligent questions about what is important to them, too.

Women do not want to be perceived as a prize to be won.  They don’t want to be a sort of trophy.  Every woman wants to be valued as the ONE woman that you love and want to be with.

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